Deb on July 16th, 2008

This is not a plea for comments for THIS blog. I talk about my  chronic commentitis here. I use my blog only as a reference point. Instead, this is a reminder that comments are like chocolate, really good if they're rich and  have some substance to them. And that if you can’t comment, you can still help out the bloggers that you like.  A big shout out to Mommie Pie and Bloghernot 2008. I'll be participating in a big way!

At the time of this blog posting, over 543 people receive this blog in their RSS reader (or via email). Another 2,000 - 4,000 come to the site directly, depending on the day and the post. Add those up, and let’s say that around 5,000 people come here daily to read my stuff. (Hey, don't laugh,  I'm pretty jazzed about those numbers.)

If 1% of you commented, that’d be 50. (I’m bad at math. Did I do that right?) The average post on here gets a respectable 10 or so comments, but that’s about 1/3 of 1% then, of the folks who get a copy of each post.  Ok, enough of the math class stuff.

This got me thinking about the other great blogs that I love. (That Hotwire© List over on the side bar isn't just there for looks. I ACTUALLY read those!)

I read several hundred blog posts a day. I comment on maybe five or six, if there is something I feel compelled to say.  So I’m in there with you. I’m not commenting much, either.  Does that make us bad ? Not really. If I’m able to leave a decent and thoughtful comment, I know that the other blogger will appreciate it. Sometimes, I even get a nice little email from them saying so. Comment Relish is a great little Word Press plug in that sends an e-mail message to users who comment on your website who have never commented before.

Sometimes, it’s a matter of time. I've read a blog post, and the comment I want to leave will take some time to phrase properly( I HATE TO LEAVE ONE WORD COMMENTS, Just as much as I hate receiving them) or I just don't have the time to comment right then. If  that's the problem you have, here are some other ways to help:

If You Don’t Have Time to Comment

  • Bookmark the post in a social bookmarking site (so others might find it).(Don't have a clue how to do this? Check here and for a comprehensive list of Social Sites check Blog Marketing Tactics. Another Word Press plug in Social Home adds a sidebar widget containing a subtle list of all your social homes as linked favicons.
  • Share it in Google Reader.
  • “Like” it in FriendFeed.
  • Tweet about it in Twitter or Plurk it
  • Stumble it in StumbleUpon.
  • If it’s "really" really good, Digg it. (Note the emphasis on really)
  • Note it on Facebook.
  • Talk about it on My Space.

You get the picture. If you enjoy something, but don’t have the chance to comment due to time, another great way to be helpful is to move it along to others in your network. That’s why there are social software tools to begin with. Making better use of them can benefit us all.

And now that I think about it, because he has comments turned off (for his own reasons and don't try to send him email either), how does Seth Godin know when he’s hit one out of the park? (Remember Seth? He's the Purple Cow guy) Del.icio.us? Links? Hmmmm.

I love my comments. They're how I know you're really reading what I type here. They're often better than the post, (don't get me started on the spam comments) and they usually tells me when I’ve hit a home run!

I could probably list 100 blogs that deserve more comments without breaking a glow. (You know Girls Raised In The South don't sweat, we glow) You probably could, too. One might even be yours. If you want to talk about your blog in the comments section here, what it’s about, and why someone might want to come by and comment, that might be fun. Give it a try. I promise I'll try to respond to your comment. I've found that responding to comments, either by email or by response comment, gives the original commenter a little warm fuzzy. Which is nice, don't you think?

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13 Responses to “Dirty Sexy Comments”

  1. 1/3 of 1%. You’re commenters are like the skim milk of the blogging world. Hope this helps because I like you.

  2. @always home and uncool: Thanks….the math really doesn’t make it look too good. Encouraging comments has always been important to me.

  3. OK, I suck at math and even I know you’ve got some pretty impressive numbers up there. And really? Just 10-ish comments on your posts? I gonna have to browse around and check your math.

    p.s. Found you from MommyPie…so that commenting did you good.
    p.p.s. Good tips in this post!
    p.p,p.s. LOL (Don’t you HATE when people pass that off as a comment?)

    San Diego Mommas last blog post..PROMPTuesday #13: Finish It

  4. @San Diego Momma: yeah just 10ish. Thanks for visiting from MommiePie and I’m glad you liked the tips. And yeah the one worders and LOLers most often get canned. I’m adding ya to the HotWire too!

  5. Thanks so much for the shout out!

    Awesome post - fantastic tips. You’re goin’ on the blogroll tonight!

    mommypies last blog post..BLOGHERNOT ‘08 Call for Instructors!

  6. @mommypie: Well, thank you for the comment! And for Bloghernot! Gonna be a hoot!

  7. I honestly hate those automated comment emails. Everytime I receive them, I’ll just delete them because I know they are automated.

    When it’s automated, you know that the blogger is not purely sincere in saying a thank you and just want you to subscribe to their feed :) (that’s just me though)

    Michael Aulias last blog post..Automate private advertising on your blog

  8. @Michael Aulia: Understood. But any acknowledgement that a comment was actually read seems to be better than nothing. I try to personalize my reply letter though.

  9. You’re also going to be listed on the Roll, once I get back into my FREAKING WordPress.

  10. Linked here from my Adoptic. Yes, comments are powerful. I received one on my photoblog tonight that has made my week!

    Those are really good thoughts about promoting good posts if you don’t have time to comment.

    Dawn @ My Home Sweet Homes last blog post..And the winners for the HOTM conference tickets are…

  11. I love getting comments as well. I have noticed, however, that for the most part the people that I actually KNOW and that I started writing my blog for are NEVER the ones that comment. It’s actually people I’ve never met before that comment, many of them enough times that we have somewhat of a bloggy relationship.

    How odd is that? Or is that actually very common?

    Also, I always respond to my comments since that’s where the conversation really gets started.

    Oh and I came here via Good Mom/Bad Mom.

    Hatchets last blog post..And They Said, "I Do"

  12. @Hatchet: Its all about the conversation for me. I’ve made some great friends though comments/commenting but the people I know know, always add some depth to the discussion.

  13. @Dawn @ My Home Sweet Home: Thanks for dropping by! Come back often!

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